Hope for Homemakers: Hope for Clutter

This entry is part 2 of 40 in the series Hope for Homemakers

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We are living in a comparison-conscious society.  With all the social media channels out there, showing one another a peek into our lives has somehow morphed into a competition.  And keeping up can be OVERwhelming!  We “follow” one another and look into each others kitchens (recipes and pictures of  wonderful food), each other’s bedrooms (decorations, DIY projects, and organization), each other’s playrooms and homeschool rooms (the activities and the accomplishments).  And we can be tempted to look at these things and say, “I want that!  I should do that in my home!”  Which is good.

…Until its not.

Because the feeling that comes crashing in right after the “oh, isn’t that neat” thoughts, can be inferiority extraordinaire.  The less-than feelings that we just need to say NO(!) to immediately but somehow have a way of sticking with us.

If we view other people’s lives from just social media or articles we read on blogs, we can be tempted to assume they have got it all together.  When in reality, usually people are only good at a few things and they share things about themselves from their wheelhouse – things that represent themselves in the best possible light.  We don’t typically share with one another the real struggles we have.  The places where we feel less-than.  The places where we recognize our deficiencies.

This is part of the reason I have picked and I am so excited to start working on this Decluttering Step by Step journey this week.

UPDATE: This book is NO longer available, but you can visit Sarah’s website: Decluttering Club where you can get SO much of her wisdom!

I started reading the book a little while back and immediately found hope in Sarah’s Ground Rules for the book.

The first one is my FAVORITE:

“I will not compare myself to other people, whether they are more or less cluttered than me, unless it is positive inspiration.”

I mean, SERIOUSLY, this is a needed rule for life, not just clutter!  Don’t you think?

Sarah’s book is starting from a positive place by encouraging us to work through our OWN stuff on a physical and emotional level.  She recognizes each of us are unique.  That means that our approaches to our clutter problems may not fit the cookie cutter “30 Days to a Clutter Free Home” programmes that never seem to get accomplished, much less maintained.  Ground Rule number one lets us know that our decluttering journey is not a competition.

So, while we dream about a clutter free home, we have to look inward to find out if it is because it will really make us happier and freer in our own homes.  If it does, we need to push through the process and push away the negative thoughts as we continue the process for ourselves.

Since we are part of a group, even this can be a temptation to compare ourselves and our progress with one another.  But I truly hope that this group will be a POSITIVE INSPIRATION, like Sarah mentions in Ground Rule number one.

And I think the only way that this will work in the positive for us is to speak words of encouragement to one another, devoid of judgment and unsolicited “advice.”  As we work through this process, I think we will discover everyone has a different tolerance for items in their homes.  Some of us are minimalists by nature, some of us find comfort in a room filled with things we love.  And there are, in the end, a lot of ways to make a house a home.

Hi, My Name is Leah and I love a clean house…

So, here’s me:

I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE a clean, orderly room.

I don’t collect a bunch of “things” other than books.

On my dining room table right now are a whole bunch of Bible study tools (books) and preschool supplies and stray toys.

The big project I am hoping to complete as part of this Decluttering Step by Step process is my husband’s office space and my office space.  These two spaces are the most neglected rooms in our home, but the catch-all for all manner of things we have no idea what to do with.

Here’s what I plan to do about the space this week:

I will start Sarah’s steps by gathering the necessary boxes and bags and working 20 minutes in the space for 5 out of 7 days.  I am going to set a timer.  And I am going to follow Sarah’s rules.

That’s it!

Do you want to join me?  I would love it if you would! 

Leave a comment below letting me know what you LOVE, LOVE, LOVE your home to look like, what you collect, what’s on your dining room table, and the big project you are planning on working through during this process.

Sadly, I no longer have the Hope for Homemakers group active on Facebook. However I have a new group called Simple Homeschooling Blessings. If you are a homeschooler looking for encouragement and like-minded community, please join me over there!

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This Post Has 2 Comments

  1. Sarah Mueller

    What a sweet surprise to stumble on this post today! I’m so glad you’re enjoying the book. Comparison is such a trap, isn’t it? 🙂

    1. Leah Hudson

      Yes, INDEED! Thanks for stopping by – I am loving the book!

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